Post by Steph the Grimreaper on May 6, 2007 11:04:26 GMT -5
Just wanted to copy/paste this post from the S.O. I think this poster made some very good points. I think this person is totally right. When you have a problem with someone you shouldn't get others involved..things should be worked out among each other and you should'nt bring groups of people into it. It does become a big ugly mess that can never be fixed!Then pretty soon the two people that had the problem becomes groups of people. I dont really want any problems in my life...do any of you? I also dont feel like things should be dealt with on a forum or webpage. I dont mean no disrespect to anyone by this post. I just feel like we all need to take a time out and think what is important to us and is it really worth all of the drama?
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posted by flower on S.O.
Very good article there, thanks for sharing this with us. Life is to short for all the drama. It is hard to move on when you feel people keep coming at you for whatever reason. I guess that is when you just walk away from it all. I am guilty of having bad things done to me and going after whomever has come at me. We also see it on this board on and off. I was accused of being someone who attacks others on this forum, while I see it as defending myself and my beliefs. When you get others involved with your problems then it seems like everyone is after everyone and everyone feeding into each others anger. People assume they know who and what because they know someone? Do we really know people...I thought so at one time or another, probably like others thought with people in their lives. Just like others I am living and learning to this day. Unfortunately not everyone can get along.... at least not until people let go of their hate and move on themselves and people in their lives tune their ears off from others problems. People need to work things out on their own because when they don't look at the big horrible mess things can turn into.
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Now everyone needs to find something constructive to do...like go hunt some ghosts!
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posted by flower on S.O.
Very good article there, thanks for sharing this with us. Life is to short for all the drama. It is hard to move on when you feel people keep coming at you for whatever reason. I guess that is when you just walk away from it all. I am guilty of having bad things done to me and going after whomever has come at me. We also see it on this board on and off. I was accused of being someone who attacks others on this forum, while I see it as defending myself and my beliefs. When you get others involved with your problems then it seems like everyone is after everyone and everyone feeding into each others anger. People assume they know who and what because they know someone? Do we really know people...I thought so at one time or another, probably like others thought with people in their lives. Just like others I am living and learning to this day. Unfortunately not everyone can get along.... at least not until people let go of their hate and move on themselves and people in their lives tune their ears off from others problems. People need to work things out on their own because when they don't look at the big horrible mess things can turn into.
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Now everyone needs to find something constructive to do...like go hunt some ghosts!
